Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Back to School

Jeremy had his first official back to school night last week. It was so cute to see him with his friends and to meet the parents of the kids he plays with. I finally met the infamous "Kyle" who we hear about all the time. Sometimes Kyle's name is taken in vain around our house or used as an insult if Jeremy is mad at us. The best I can figure is that Jeremy has a like/hate relationship with Kyle. By the way, Jeremy is not short for his age...the kid on the left has two parents who are over 6 ft tall - I think the dad is around 6ft 6in tall!


JP is growing up and it breaks my heart a little but
I love to see him grow and learn too!

Happy Birthday Rachael!

Rachael turned 29 on the 22nd and we celebrated by having some cake and ice cream at Rachael's house. Rachael decided to have everyone grab a fork and dig in. Turned out to be a lot of fun and may just be a new tradition for sharing a family birthday cake. Enjoy watching the slide show of the boys just going for it!!

Monday, September 22, 2008

Yeah for Book Club and an excuse to get together!!

This Thursday is book club. For those of you who are local come over even if you have not read the book. It is always fun just to get together and talk and the snacks are usually a good motivation too.

For those of you not local to my abode, the book is The Five Love Languages of Children and I recommend it as an easy to read, lots of insight, trying to be a better parent book. This book was interesting to read and reflect back on my own childhood and the ways I felt loved. Even though Jeremy is technically a little young to truly have a set love language, I have a good hunch of what his will be. The best part of this book is that each chapter provides suggestions of activities and actions you can take with your child that will speak to their way of feeling loved.

If you have not read this book yet, I would recommend it as well as the original The Five Love Languages that addressed how to understand how our spouses feel most loved and improve our ability to strengthen marriages by "speaking" our spouses love language.




Sunday, September 21, 2008

More pictures...

Blogs are so great because we can get continual updates and pictures from family and friends' families. If you want to see more cute pictures of David, go here. We can't wait to meet him in a couple of weeks!

I loved Kristi's reference to Seriously so blessed! Really there are moments in life when we are so blessed. Although this blog is a fun spoof on the Mormon bloggers who talk about being so blessed there are truly moments in life when we are so blessed. Not in the "isn't my life perfect" way but in the tender mercies of everyday life way. We feel so blessed to be a part of this new eternal family that is being created through the blessings of a temple marriage and to watch a spirit fresh from heaven join Kristi and Joe.

More updates on life below...

A letter from my sister about Hurricane Ike...

I received this email from my sister and have loved talking to her through her experience with the Hurricane. Her biggest lesson from the big hurricane three years ago was to have cash. With the storm warnings this time around they went to their bank and pulled out $1000 in cash to have on hand. With earthquakes we don't get a warning so Jerry and I are going to try to add cash to our kits over the next several months along with updating them during General Conference this year. I think Jeremy's kit contains diapers and 2T clothes. Anyway, I thought you would enjoy her perspective on the hurricane...



Dear Family,

We have survived hurricane Ike!!!!! Our house had no damage. Our little cover for the fireplace was the only thing that blew off and we found it when every one had a bath in our ditch in the front yard ! We had great fun and got great pictures !

We run generators to keep food and have lights at night, although this is a very costly way to survive. We estimate about 200-250 dollars per week. We received the new today that they expect us to have power my the 26th, only 2 weeks after the storm hit. Great news because the early reports were that we would be without power for a month!

Paul Sr. bought me a washboard ( no anger please, it was actually my request) I wash Paul Sr., mine and the babies clothing and have taught the kids to wash their own. Another great learning experience for the kids. Our girls aren't getting survival skills at girls camp anymore, so I am thankful for the opportunity to teach them what I learned.

5 days following the storm Wal-mart is open running on generators also. No dairy, meat, frozen foods. We will try later to upload photos that Tiffiny and I took of the bare shelves of bread, canned meat, veggies, and fruit. Pictures of mile long car lines waiting for gas, only gas stations with generators had gas. People 50 -100 in line with gas cans trying to get gas. Paul Sr. and I drove a 160 mile round trip for milk, eggs, ect. that we know will be at least another week coming here. But so grateful to have such rare commodities.

FEMA stations offering food, water, ice in the first few days were 2-3 hours in line and 2-3 miles long. Dustin, Paul Jr., Tiffiny and Amber, and Michael are currently volunteering 4-6 hours shifts at our local FEMA station.

Our ward is going out tomorrow with a cleanup crew to offer cleanup assistance to as many people they can find who need it. All the younger kids are going with Paul Sr. to do that, while the older kids work at the FEMA station.

We are most grateful for our leaders who have counseled us to have 72 hour kits, used ours. People trying to prepare before a storm hits are hours in line with empty shelves and unable to get basic supplies to survive 72 hours. 3 days prior to the storm we steered clear of Wal-mart. We instead filled our tanks of gas and filled one 55 gallon drum of gas for the first few days of generator use. When that ran out we had to travel 100 miles to the nearest gas station. Filled two 55 gallon drums and are currently still using that. (By the way, that was a scary ride home, because you know if any accident happens, BOOM say goodbye, which by the way I did not think about until after we had the gas.)

We have been blessed with beautiful weather and cool nights, a very unusual occurrence following a hurricane. We are blessed with children who have enjoyed there time off school and see everything new we are doing as a grand new adventure. We are so grateful to Heavenly Father who spared our home and roof and spared our children living in a shelter. We have scripture study outside under the tree and it is such a peaceful time that following the return of power, we hope to continue doing that on beautiful days.

Thank you for your prayers, concern and love. We are REALLY enjoying this time as a family !!!!

Allison

My treadmill breeds the plague...

I wish I were kidding but I seriously think by treadmill has some kind of scary virus breeding on it. I have sprayed the thing down liberally with anti bacterial and anti viral cleaning agents but each time I work out for 2-3 days in a row for the past five weeks I have ended up getting sick with the same cold. I am now on my third round of cold/flu/weakness. It's either the treadmill or my body is carrying some dormant virus that comes out with sweat. Am I allergic to exercise? Is it all in my head? It really is discouraging to spend half the weekends out of the past five laying on the couch trying to get better before Monday morning.

Any ideas anyone? Any anti-viral cleaning products that you swear by to keep yourself and your family healthy during cold and flu season??

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Meet David Jesse Chase

We are so excited to have a new grandson join the family. This is the first baby for Kristi and Joseph.

Baby Chase was born on September 15th at 11:59 am and weighed in at 7 lbs 3oz and was 20 inches long. We are grateful that both the baby and Kristi are doing well.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Am I an Emma?

While researching my talk last night - and wasting some time procrastinating and surfing the web - I came across this tribute to Emma Smith. I thought it was so beautiful and such a tribute to a woman who sacrificed so much to support her husband. I wonder sometimes, when I get a little discouraged about the time my husband is away with work and his calling or when I hear other sisters complain about the time their husbands are gone serving, have we really forgotten the sacrifices made in our behalf to the extent that we actually feel to complain?

As I watched this last night I was reminded and humbled at the great sacrifices Emma made including the companionship of her husband. I read another quote about one of the early leaders of the church who left his wife and children to serve a mission in a foreign land. I marvel at the sacrifices these women made. Who knows? Maybe they complained and maybe there were women who held their men back from being who the Lord wanted them to be or doing what the Lord wanted them to do-I do believe we have that kind of influence in our homes. We know from the stories we have heard that many women didn't. Many women raised their children alone for months and months while their husbands served and built Zion. Some women crossed the plains with their children while their husbands were serving elsewhere. I know Emma is a somewhat controversial figure but as I listened to the song and watched the video I asked where I would be if I endured her life? I have been very reflective the past several months of who I am and I wonder, "Am I an Emma?" "Am I a mother who raises my child to be one of Helaman's warriors?"

I have wondered how these hero mothers and women acted on a daily basis to become the women we reverence? I know our trials are not their trials and have heard they would not trade places with the us and the trials of our time. I think that means I need to be better and stronger and more courageous and less complaining and mostly I need to not be overwhelmed but be sure to trust in the Lord and turn to Him as they did. It is kind of overwhelming but I bet on a day to day basis Emma could have never imagined our day and that anyone would sit at their computer and wonder, "Am I an Emma?"

Thursday, September 11, 2008

How to improve your tract home mirrors...

I found an ad for this company in a magazine yesterday and can't wait to try their product. I have been wanting to put a new mirror in our guest bathroom but the thought of taking down the contractor installed mirror, re-texturing the wall, hoping to find the paint that matches the rest of the walls somewhere in our garage and spending $100-300 on a pretty mirror has slowed me down. This website sells products that allow you to frame your existing mirror. I am not sure how much money it will really save but it saves a lot of work and the risk of tearing up the drywall under the mirror and/or having to repaint the entire bathroom because you can't match the paint...

Just another thing to add to the to do /to buy list!

Monday, September 8, 2008

Over the Top and On the Spot!!

I was blog hopping and found a new blog that I love. It is an utter waste of time as it is the blog of a fictional character named TAMN who is a compilation of every Mormon Tiffiny/Amber/Meghan/Nicole in Mormonville. It is some fun reading and if you have ever lived in Utah, Arizona, SoCal or other places where way too cute and way too Seriously, So Blessed Mormon girls live than you will love this little blog. Read the profile first or none of this will make sense. The ads are real and actually take you to some really great sites which may mean I have a little too much TAMN in me!

Another fun blog that takes a look at us Mormon's and our quirks is What Mormons Like. Rachael has had a link to this for awhile and it's fun to take a look at when they update their posts.

It's good to know we don't take
ourselves too seriously!

Way Past Time...

I am a little too sentimental and hang on to some things too long. Today, I put my missions suits in the D.I. pile. How many Elders have their mission suits 16 years after they first wore them? It was really way past time...

By the way, I know my hair still looks basically the same... Crud, someone needs to write into Oprah for a free makeover for me! At least I'm not still trying to wear the '92 suit and name tag.


Me and my district boarding the bus for the airport to take us to the mission field.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Del Mar Race Track

Several weekends ago we went to San Diego for a quick getaway. We went to the Del Mar Racetrack on Friday night and watched a couple of horse races and then spent half the day at a beach in Encinitas. It was a fun weekend but most of our fun was just watching Jeremy watch the horse races!